Soooo which is worse? This day an age I see a lot of the so called helicopter moms. You know what I am talking about moms that are so far up their kids butts they are one with the child. Is this a bad thing I mean at least they know what their kids are up to right? WRONG! Those kid already know how to play you mom, and have by past all your safety measures and do what they want, meaning you have Life 360 family app on their phone to watch every where they go right? Nope they just leave their phone behind or turn off the the transmissions when they go into a dead zone so you think it lost service. The bad moms well they already know this stuff because they already turn off all the tracker stuff the their own phones, LOL!

Helicopter mamas are constantly busing their preciously little do no wrong angels from one after school activity to another with fresh Chick-fil-a snack waiting in the car for their arrival. Just waiting to hear all about the their darlings day, which they do no wish to share at all, but they are going to pry and probably already have the details from another mama or teacher friend on the text chain. Bad moms send an Uber to pick up that runs you thru the closest drive thru for a prepaid order on the fast food app or have pawned you off on a helicopter mom they pretend to be friends with but are using.

Helicopter mom- homemade gluten free organic cookies, bad mom- store bought Oreos Helicopter mom- does your school project for you so it completely unbelievable as your own, bad mom drops the ball on buying any supplies for your school project but leaves a credit for you on Amazon for you to order. Helicopter mom- organizes a concert to your favorite singer with after slumber party, complete with spa goody bag for birthday, bad mom drops you all at the local spa with an Amex that gets declined. So while they both seem cool one gives you space, but it is too much space and does not care because you were just an after thought from a broken condom and a failed Plan B. The other worships you as the only thing in their life since they paid $20,000 for In-vitro just to have you and believe you owe them everything.

While neither relationship is particularly healthy and as a child you will be fucked up. I am not sure there is a right answer as to which one is actually worse at this point. However it does seem to be a very revolving cycle these days of bad parents raising bad children to go on to have more kids that probably should not even be here. Most Millennials and Gen Z have actually decided to not even have children, much less get married. Which I can’t say either decision is bad and might be thee smartest thing they have done to date, BRAVO! Finally something I can get behind. However it mostly because you are emotional damaged and incapable of looking beyond yourselves and your entitlement to care for anything other than and houseplant which is disposable and replaceable.

I have a much younger acquaintance in a mom group that told me after her first child that he would be in addition to their very active lifestyles. They would not be settling down or changing how they lived just because they had a baby he would just be along for the the ride. Which is great in theory until he does not receive a proper education, or get socialized with other children, or misses out of ” that kid stuff” because he has had to fit into an adult mold his entire life. Which I guess I can relate too always being to youngest and having to always act more grown up in situations. I look back and think some of my childhood was stolen where I was actually a kid, but some weird morphemic mini adult in a child’s body, like a JonBonete’ Ramsey, that poor little girl that was murdered but looked like a mini Miss America with her flipper teeth and pageant hair.

Again the outcome of having a helicopter mom right there, but at least I was like my husband that had a bad mom that was never there, or when she was she was a total whore. Imagine growing up with that, watching your mom just being a basic slut, I mean I guess you would be glad she wasn’t there to be honest, right? We are product of two complete different types of parent styles, which are light years apart, and how we ever met is a complete mystery because clearly it was not an arranged marriage, and our parents had nothing in common.

I will say that having a Helicopter mom for me made me very secretive, I learned to hide everything from her, which made me grow up even faster and kind of made me a liar which I really do not like liars, ironic right? However having a bad mom made him grow up fast too just from lack of having a mom or parent in general. You fix your meals which were always crap because there was no food. He was a latch key kid with his siblings no adult at home, today DFAC would just take you away. So guess at least a helicopter mama cares even if it is an over reach most of the time.

The sad part is our society thinks a bad mom is such a great thing they have made movies about them, like it is honor to suck at parenthood. By all means keep sucking and raise a traumatized, drug dependent, desensitized generation we just need more of that to go with your sad sack ADHD retards you keep pushing out from you own drug addictions. Keeping telling your self it is the immunizations that cause that; as you vape your dope, and snort your Adderall you took in college to get that extra bump to cram for exams. Whatever helps you sleep at night, which is probably Valium….. right, got a script for that too? Okay sickos enough musing for now I have real shit to do!

Bad Mama Requesting A Flyby,

Veronica J.